Media Team
Renowned Nigerian media figure Toke Makinwa has candidly shared her thoughts on society’s obsession with marital status.
She poured her heart out in an empowering message directed at unmarried women.
The television host made these revelations shortly after celebrating the arrival of her first child, a beautiful baby girl named Yakira Eliana, at the age of 40.
Toke expressed that this new chapter has brought her unparalleled joy, revealing a depth of love she never imagined possible.
Her heartfelt words resonated: “I’ve learned to transform negativity into fuel for my journey. Every criticism thrown my way has only strengthened my resolve – and God has a special way of elevating those society often underestimates. I share this for anyone facing doubts, setbacks, or societal pressures.
It’s ironic how professional success means little if you haven’t checked society’s boxes. Marriage gets idolized as the ultimate achievement, and childlessness? That carries its own heavy stigma.
But today, I praise God for proving that divine timing surpasses human expectations. My heart needed preparation, and I’m deeply grateful for the sisterhood supporting me now.
To every woman feeling the clock ticking: society’s expiration dates are illusions. Your worth isn’t defined by timelines.
I’m profoundly thankful I waited for this moment – becoming a mother when truly ready, rejecting limiting labels, and experiencing God’s flawless timing. This blessing came precisely when it was meant to!
Negative voices hold surprising power. Throughout my pregnancy, fear nearly overwhelmed me until I embraced this truth: ‘Perfect love casts out fear.’ God’s love transforms everything – I held onto that until my soul believed it.
Harsh words stung, but couldn’t break me. They simply reminded heaven of my story, prompting this miraculous testimony. So to you reading this:
Persevere. Silence the doubters. Stay connected to your Source. Celebrate your journey – you’re evolving beautifully. The breakthrough might test your patience, but the triumph will rewrite your story. Whether it’s motherhood, marriage, or other dreams – your moment is coming. Congratulations in advance to every waiting heart.”
