Grammy Award-winning Nigerian songstress Temilade Openiyi, widely recognized as Tems, has opened up about her non-negotiable standards when it comes to romantic partnerships.
During a candid chat with Complex magazine, the R&B sensation behind hits like “Crazy Tings” revealed her deal-breakers in potential relationships. She emphasized the importance of genuine connection and emotional investment from a partner.
The alternative soul artist explained that disinterest and lack of friendship foundations are immediate warning signs in any romantic entanglement.
“A major red flag is being with someone who doesn’t prioritize friendship in the relationship,” she stated.
“Equally concerning is a partner who lacks curiosity about your world. Why commit to someone who shows no desire to truly understand you?”
“If your significant other isn’t eager to learn more about you day by day, that relationship isn’t worth keeping,” Tems advised firmly.
The Free Mind vocalist confessed to being naturally romantic but currently exercising caution due to previous romantic setbacks.
She revealed she’s presently channeling her energy into personal growth and self-care before opening up to new relationships.
Tems drops relationship wisdom đź’ˇ
— “No friendship potential? Red flag đźš© Lack of curiosity about your life? Another red flag đźš©” pic.twitter.com/4iHImSo5CR
— 𝗔𝗟𝗕𝗨𝗠𝗧𝗔𝗟𝗞𝗦 📀 (@AlbumTalksHQ) December 8, 2025
