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Alexer Pere, the ex-wife of popular Nigerian artist Harrysong, has revealed her difficult choice to temporarily relinquish custody of their two young kids.

She shared this heart-wrenching update via an emotional Instagram story post early Thursday.

Breaking down in tears, Alexer confessed that this decision came after enduring immense stress since the dissolution of their marriage, describing it as the hardest step she’s had to take.

The mother disclosed that she has been the primary caregiver, with the children residing with her full-time, attending school from her home while only seeing their father sporadically.

This arrangement, she revealed, has persisted for nearly two years.

Alexer made serious allegations against her former spouse, claiming he frequently disrupts her peace by making unannounced visits and creating unnecessary drama in her life.

The constant turmoil, she explained, has left her emotionally drained and unable to continue under such conditions.

She referenced pending legal allegations from Harrysong’s petition but stated the emotional burden forced her immediate decision regarding custody.

Emphatically asserting that this isn’t abandonment, Alexer vowed to reclaim custody once she regains emotional stability.

She voiced concerns about the children’s welfare, alleging their father’s frequent absence might leave them in the hands of housekeepers despite their young age.

Previously residing in Asaba, Alexer disclosed she relocated to Lagos after receiving threats that compromised her safety.

She framed her choice as an act of self-preservation, necessary for maintaining her mental health and wellbeing.

Through her tears, she implored for her children’s safety while asserting that no mother willingly separates from her kids except as a last resort.

Alexer concluded by reaffirming her unbreakable maternal bond and her commitment to remaining in their lives.

This development follows Harrysong’s 2024 statement about marital struggles where he requested privacy for his family.

Shortly afterward, Alexer’s cryptic social media posts hinted at their complete separation.

The couple wed in March 2021 and are parents to two children, currently aged four and three.